Living life and leading life are two different terms in actual. In this fast era of Competition and Communication, many of us have left behind the concept of living and Leading a life. Generally whenever we ask someone a common question “How is Life going on?” the most common answers are usually “Fine”, “Very Busy” or “Just Going with the flow”. This provides a clear picture of some of the element missing in our lives. In general cases mostly individuals are in deep thoughts and leading a life with full of negative biasness. The reason behind this is that mostly people have been through some of the hard times in the past or have faced some of the negative experiences. The starting of their day or even a single task is based on the negative energy they exhale, as result of their mindset and perspective.
Gradually we train our mind in such a manner that we cannot even imagine the good that can happen, only thing we perceive is that some sort of negative outcome. The time comes that this mode of thinking can lead a normal and perfect individual towards the road of Anxiety, Depression and General Lack of Happiness. This is the time of peak when a human mind must be revamped and to work on diverting the thinking mindset to something that can save from destruction. We do not take this thing into account that when our negative thinking engine and our mindset of negative personas is on full throttle, it not only harm us, but also the people, situations and many other aspects of our lives.
Joy, amusement, euphoria or happiness, whatever name you called it by, they are all the emotions that can only be felt when one is ready to do so. Most of the times when a person is drowned in sadness and negative emotions, he cannot look into the happiness and good things happening around him. The feeling that an individual is happy can be easily identified by the facial expressions, smileys and many other simple signs. Whereas to calculate of evaluate the sadness and level of soreness in an individual is pretty much hard as we humans are best at hiding our emotions
This model name ALAZIK, is a concept which can help an individual as per situation in redirecting the thinking mindset and helps in altering the cycle of thoughts going through. This is basically a phenomenon of human mind that it can be trained in a way we wanted it. But the one who can master it in training is hard to find. Things can never be changed overnight, change takes time. But taking an initiative and to start something new is also an achievement. This model will help individual to see and to feel the real happiness around him of what he already have, of what he already possess, and how a little act of thankfulness can harness the happiness within him and help in the transformation of the mindset
Many of the books, write-ups and other material discuss about change in thinking, setting mindsets but providing the guidelines of what to do actually those numbers are very low. This idea of metamorphose of Human Mindset is also discussed in Al-Quran, Soorah e Al-Aaraaf in the perfect way it can be. This process of redirecting of focus from negative elements of life to positive is not a piece of cake. But nothing in this world remains same throughout except our mindset and way of thinking as we want to keep it that way
Allah discusses in Quran, Human is undeniably a very forgetful creature, he forgets what he have and what his abilities are. In the same way when it comes to happiness he do not look up on what happiness are around. This phenomenon of recognition of happiness is based on the concept of 3 elements. Firstly gratitude, if a person is thankful enough for what he have or had, secondly remembrance, this is the concept where memory plays a vital role, when a human is in hard times he must remember and recall himself that what he happiness and what achievements he had, third is the positivity, to ponder on any event in your life in the best available positive way to perceive it and deliver it to your mind in a good way
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What is the meaning of the word “Alazik” ?