We all have felt the pain and know very well how it feels like. This pain can sometimes be from our own parents & amp; siblings and sometimes very close friends in some of the other ways or in terms of the words that they may use. A tongue is just a piece of flesh and is enough to break a person’s heart. We are most likely to go through pain, when we have high ‘expectations’ from others.
Expectations even of the least can cause you to negatively think & break your heart which leads to emotional and sentimental changes like sadness, not willing to do well again. We all should understand that it is the human fitrah to expect back the goodness that you provide to others. But remember dear innocent heart, the expectation will make you suffer again.
Sometimes, it might be difficult to recover from heartbreak but remember it’s never impossible to do anything. When we will genuinely ask ALLAH from any type of recovery, He will surely heal your heart.
Remember the heartache that you go through is not permanent. It might be that now Allah wants you to become stronger and start over again by the way of repentance.
Always remember the doors of His Mercy is always open for you as long as you are alive.Maybe that is a wake-up call from Allah. He wants you to return to Him and mend your relationship with Allah. Know that you were created for a purpose that is higher than fulfilling the lowly desires and satisfying the creation.
You were meant to please ALLAH and earn His pleasure by the way of sincere obedience. The soul will find eternal peace only in His remembrance. Our aim should be to serve Allah and serving the people but only to gain His eternal pleasure i.e. without expecting anything from them.
Give your heart only to the One who has created it, it should beat only for Him! Once it starts obeying its Creator, He will wipe away the scars.
Our expectations should only be from Our Creator ALLAH as He is the Perfect One who has created all of us. A believer’s true faith resides in having high expectations from ALLAH and you will never be disheartened.
To the broken one that expects too much; Rely only upon ALLAH because He’s the One who actually cares for you. Cares for the tears that you spend over people. So do yourself a favor, instead of trying to please people; please ALLAH who will reward you endlessly for your sincere efforts.
So expect only from ALLAH O’ Dear Heart! Sooner, it will forget the good that it did for others. We all need to fix our hearts as soon as possible and pour our hearts out to ALLAH. He is As-Sami the All-Hearer of the supplications. Whatever you focus on in your life, will grow, so therefore if you will focus on the positives and take it as a lesson then your life will become meaningful.
The Prophet (SAW) said:
Verily, the hearts of all the sons of Adam are between the two fingers out of the fingers of the Compassionate Lord as one heart. He turns that to any direction He likes.
Then the Prophet (SAW) said:
O Allah, the Turner of the hearts, turn our hearts to Your obedience.
Author: Beenish Mahajan.